I’ve read the story of the woman with the issue of blood more times than I can count. It lives in a section of Mark 5 that most preachers use to talk about persistence, or faith, or healing. All of that is fair. But lately what stops me isn’t the miracle. It’s the moment just before it.

She reaches. That’s it. Twelve years of suffering, a fortune spent on doctors, a body that kept failing her — and she reaches through a crowd to touch the hem of a moving man’s garment. Not his hand. Not his face. The hem. The outermost edge of the thing.


I think about what it must have taken to get close enough. Mark tells us the crowd was pressing in on Jesus from every side (Mark 5:24). This wasn’t an open field. It was bodies and noise and the kind of movement that makes you feel invisible even when you’re surrounded. She was, by the customs of her time, someone people stepped away from, not toward. And yet she pressed in.

There’s a kind of faith that announces itself — that stands at the front, confident and articulate. And then there’s this other kind. Quiet. Almost secretive. The faith that doesn’t make a speech, it just reaches. I’ve known both kinds in my own life, and I’ll tell you honestly, the reaching kind has felt more real to me. It doesn’t have a lot of words. It just moves toward something it isn’t sure will hold.


What undoes me every time is what Jesus does next. He stops. The crowd is pressing, the disciples think the question is almost absurd — who touched you? — but Jesus turns. He doesn’t let her disappear back into the crowd with her healing and her silence. He finds her. He calls what she did faith. He calls her daughter.

That word lands differently each time I read it. Daughter. Not case or interruption or woman in the crowd. Daughter.


I don’t always come to prayer with much. Some mornings I come with even less than that. But this passage keeps reminding me that the hem is enough. That reaching, even timidly, even from the back of a crowd — it counts. It is seen.

Somebody needed to hear that today. Maybe it was me.